Puppy Prep: Getting Your New Dog Comfortable With Being Handled

August 6, 2024
Photo: A Chocolate Lab smiles gently at the camera.

Bringing home a new puppy is so exciting, right? Those adorable little paws and that sweet puppy breath! So good! But...as much as it may seem you love and snuggle your new baby, you may not be getting your puppy comfortable with being handled. It may not seem like a big deal or something you need to work on, but getting your puppy prepped to be handled by others (the vet, groomers, etc.) is super important and can make a huge difference later on!

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Getting Started with Puppy Handling

Puppies need to get used to being touched for things like grooming and vet visits. The best time to start is when they’re young. Some breeders use programs like Puppy Culture to start puppies off on the right paw right from birth, with thoughtful, puppy-guided confidence-building exercises. The American Veterinary Society of Animal Behavior says puppies are most open to new experiences at this time. It’s a good idea to teach them good habits early on—and way easier than trying to change things when they’re older!

Making Handling Fun

Photo: A girl holds a BijoPoo puppy.

Start with gentle petting and soft massages. Think of it as a little bonding session. They’re adorable, so this usually isn’t hard to do for most puppy parents. First, use a calm voice, and give treats and praise when your puppy is relaxed. The idea is to make handling a positive experience. Sometimes, the hardest part is containing your excitement and exciting them! The American Kennel Club says calm positive reinforcement can help puppies imprint important behaviors. It can make them associate being handled with good things, like treats and love. Gradually build up to more touching, like gently holding their paws or touching their ears.

Key Areas to Focus On

Just like in humans, some spots are more sensitive than others, so be gentle. Focus on areas like their paws, ears, and belly. Handling their paws is especially important because you’ll need to clip their nails someday. If they get used to you touching their paws early, nail trims won’t be as scary later. The American Veterinary Medical Association (AVMA) says early desensitization to touch can help reduce fear and anxiety during grooming. Pay attention to ears, too, because for many breeds, it’s important to keep ears clean to prevent infection. There’s nothing worse than a dog that freaks out when you need to clean something for their own good!

Prepping for Specific Tasks

Handling exercises also get your puppy ready for specific tasks like nail trimming, giving medicine, or putting in ear drops. The ASPCA recommends keeping these sessions short and sweet and always rewarding your puppy with treats or a favorite toy. The more you practice, the more relaxed your puppy will be when these situations come up for real. A study in the Journal of Veterinary Behavior found that puppies handled positively early on are more likely to stay calm and cooperative during grooming and medical procedures.

No, Your Puppy Doesn’t Hate You!

Study up on dog body language so you can gauge your pup’s comfort level with different situations and make sure that they feel secure. Keep the sessions short and always end on a good note. Gradual exposure and positive reinforcement can help puppies overcome their fears. If your puppy’s anxiety doesn’t improve, consider consulting a professional dog trainer or behaviorist for extra guidance. You just don’t want them to associate your sessions with something that makes the situation even worse.

Tips for Successful Puppy Handling Exercises

  1. Be Gentle: Again, always handle your puppy gently. Rough handling can lead to fear or aggression, and you may not even know because you think you’re just playing. Puppies may try to act like they’re ferocious, but this is an impressionable time. Being gentle in play and everything else is so important.
  2. Use Treats: Positive reinforcement, like treats and praise, helps your puppy associate handling with good things. This approach makes them more likely to enjoy the experience. If your puppy doesn’t seem food-motivated, find a better treat! It’ll make a difference.
  3. Stay Consistent: Make handling a regular part of your routine. Consistency helps your puppy get comfortable with being touched and reduces stress. Consider taking them to your vet frequently as a puppy for handling exercises as well–that way they’ll associate the smells and sights of the office with positive association.

Taking It to The Next Level with Positive Association

Photo: A woman snuggles with a German Shepherd Puppy.
As your puppy gets more comfortable, try practicing handling in different places and with different people. This will help them get used to being touched in lots of different situations, which is great for their socialization. If your puppy has trouble with specific areas, like their ears, work on those slowly and reward them for staying calm. Introducing them to new people in their first 100 days makes a big difference–and all those ear rubs can help!

Getting your puppy used to being handled is a big win. It will make grooming, vet visits, and everyday care so much easier. Plus, it helps your puppy feel more confident and less stressed. If you’re patient and consistent and make these exercises a regular part of your puppy’s routine, you will have a happier and more relaxed dog in any situation! 

About the Author

Lori Mullins Ennis has been part of the pet product industry for over a decade, researching and writing about all things fabulous for dogs. A pet advocate and proud foster (fail) parent, she lives in Texas with her husband, her teenage son, and their three four-legged chaos coordinators—Lilly, Lucy, and Louis (aka Baby Beast). She's passionate about natural and holistic pet care, and she’s always on the hunt for the best ways to keep her pups happy, healthy. Always fighting the dog hair battle in her house, she's 100% okay with it being a favorite fashion accessory!

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